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Post by ~*~Kit_The_Kat~*~ on Nov 21, 2003 10:17:03 GMT -5
ditto andi. bottom line, is you've got to do something about it and then see what happens and not try to "guess" what other people's reactions are gonna be.... if you live your life on "what ifs" or "supposes", you won't be "living" life to it's fullest. I've always found that when it comes right down to it "yourself" is your only "true" best friend who won't let you down and you don't have to worry about "yourself" letting you down because of what other people think or say.
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Post by Andi on Nov 21, 2003 10:22:38 GMT -5
That's exactly right. Though it took me a long while to figure that out when I was younger. Now, I stand up for myself, and to hell with what other people think. Though, when I'm wrong, I'll usually admit it and apologize, but that doesn't happen to often. That I'm wrong. he he How does that go?
Rule #1 - I'm always right
Rule #2 - If you disagree, read rule #1 again.
Something like that. It cracks me up. ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D
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Post by ~*~Kit_The_Kat~*~ on Nov 21, 2003 10:30:23 GMT -5
BINGO! give that lady a prize!
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Post by Andi on Nov 21, 2003 10:31:49 GMT -5
;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D
Thanks Kit!
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Post by charmedluver on Nov 21, 2003 17:10:09 GMT -5
[glow=red,2,300]i used to act how i thought other people would want me to act but then i realized that wasn't any fun so now i am my weird and wacky self ;D
I walk down the hall and my and my friend are singing Sally the camel has 5 humps, Sally the camel has 5 humps, Sally the camel has 5 so ride sally ride do do do[/glow]
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Post by ~*~Kit_The_Kat~*~ on Nov 21, 2003 18:42:05 GMT -5
for one so young, you got it already congrats! ;D weird and wacky's the way to go ;D
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Post by TrustNo1SM on Nov 21, 2003 19:20:47 GMT -5
I learned that a couple years ago. Weird and Wacky is definatly the way to go.
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Post by ~*~Kit_The_Kat~*~ on Nov 21, 2003 19:23:02 GMT -5
Does anyone else have another question for Dear Chatty? I forgot to mention, if you don't want people to know it's you that's posting the question (for whatever reason) you can sign in as a guest and post one anonymously.  |
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Post by charmedluver on Nov 21, 2003 20:12:19 GMT -5
[glow=red,2,300]yep i love to be weird ;D[/glow]
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Post by libra254 on Nov 21, 2003 22:30:07 GMT -5
Actually I have a ?
My roommate has these annoying habbits. like eating with her mouth open and making those awful noises as she's doing...or blow drying her hair on my side of the room (b/c of the mirror) and having to deal with her hair that fell off on my side....anywho, annoying/gross habbits like that. I've approached her on the one about the hair, but i'm reluctant to tell her about the other ones that drive me nuts. So, I try to ingnore, not eat with her, leave when she's eating, but I'm getting tired of it. I want to be in my room when i want to, but how do i tell her about that. "Hey I find ur way of eating annoying so stop....didn't ur mother ever teach u to eat w/ ur mouth closed!" anyway I say it, it's going to sound like that.
So, how?
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Post by Andi on Nov 21, 2003 22:39:15 GMT -5
Make a joke out of it then. If you make someone's nasty habits funny, they'll realize that they're doing it and stop.
So, I don't know how close the two of you are, but if you have a good relationship otherwise, then make fun of her to her face, not in a mean way, but in a funny way. Like while you're eating and she's doing that, you do it too, but make it be funny, like make a face, or a grunting noise or something. If you don't have a close relationship, then I don't know how you live with each other without making each other mad at one time or another. It's gonna happen sooner or later.
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Post by libra254 on Nov 21, 2003 22:46:06 GMT -5
thanks andi, I'll try that when she returns from Houston on Sunday!!
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Post by Andi on Nov 22, 2003 12:50:22 GMT -5
Your Welcome Sweetie! ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D  ;D ;D ;D ;D It'll be fine I'm sure. Just be relaxed about it and it'll all work out. ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D |
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Post by ~*~Kit_The_Kat~*~ on Nov 22, 2003 14:30:58 GMT -5
It's scary Andi, I was thinking the same thing.... make a joke out of it....  Wow! you're too quick! |
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Post by Andi on Nov 22, 2003 16:02:18 GMT -5
That doesn't happen very often, that I'm quick. he he ;D ;D ;D
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Wow! you're too quick!